Forgot to mention the keeping out of trouble (drugs especially), focused, accountable to others.
The football team at my kids’ high school along with the cheerleaders are known to be onto drugs, and it’s a private Christian school.
On of my kids’ friends is an excellent singer, and he’s been in the spring musicals. However in the fall, he plays football. My kids hate it when he’s playing football because he gets into lots of trouble with the team. His parents are oblivious to it, and they always want him doing football over theater.
Colleges have lots of problems with drugs. Texas A&M had to suspend several of it’s starters for the first 2 games of the seasin because of drugs.