[metmom]

This is, IMHO, the folly of “abstinence education”. Everyone is CAPABLE of self-control, sure. But not many will exercise it in these circumstances. Our social problem lies in our culture, and therefore will not be solved with a “just say no” pledge campaign.

Someone has to take that stand to turn the tide.

The *folly* or abstinence education*???

And you propose what? To just let them do what they want? Offer nothing better? Hand out condoms figuring you can't fight city hall?

[little jeremiah]

The problem is huge and must be addressed from many angles. There is no easy way to get out of the pit. Individuals, if well brought up and receptive to their up bringing, and not falling prey to bad influences, may be able to escape the net or web of sexual sin.

But the culture must change. And early marriage needs to make a come back.