[cherry]

how do I tell my adult married children to be very caustious about black males, even females, especially when they are in groups without sounding racist or prudish?....

my dil is black, my grandchildren are biracial, and I think that puts my son in a bad position...

my dtr is still in lala land...normalcy bias....

[Gritty]

how do I tell my adult married children to be very cautious about black males, even females, especially when they are in groups without sounding racist or prudish?....

I don't know if you can do it in a Politically Correct way - so some might be offended, but reality is a non-Politically Correct thing not something that glosses over the facts. I suppose being "offended" that is preferable to being dead or turned into a vegetable?

I am not sure if there is a "non-black" version or not. But here is the original... The Talk: Non-Black Version...