It's not so much that you or I are “wrong” in our initial assessment, as it is that we “might be wrong”.
I prefer to gather factual information before I publically post an “opinion” on a situation like this.
You should attempt to try that tactic/attitude.
Because this situation, like all others, is not about you, your personal rough patch, or your cynicism.
Said in my best southern accent, inherited from both side of my mother and grandmothers...
Bless your sweet and precious heart, dear. Thank you for your kind and thoughtful advice to me.