“If you don’t win it in competition it is meaningless.”
I like the way you think. Our oldest son says that any competition without an objective measure of success (points scored, best time, etc.) isn’t a real competition. Figure skating, for example, is silly. It may be pretty, but it’s not really competition nor a sport.
Bingo, either by clock or score against an opponent. Anything based entirely on being judged is a subjective pant load.