All people have one or many weaknesses that cause them to sin. It is not a sin for a married person to find another person attractive, but it is a sin to act on that attraction. Very simple.
Not the same. Homosexuality is a spirit...an oppressive spirit that gets ahold of someone and if not dealt with on a spiritual level, most times leads to premature death and most of those times it is via suicide.
There is a reason why homosexuality is dealt with so harshly in the scriptures...even the appearance of it... it spreads like a plague because that is how demonic spirits work.
Again, the bible is clear even on the effeminate...
It is simply not to be “tolerated” in the church. Period.