Yes...all of that.
This whole thing is bad enough, but just two weeks ago my dearest friend died in my arms of a massive heart aneurism, and i ended up being the one to authorize her disconnect from life support, organ harvesting, and IDing her body 9000 miles from home, because I couldn’t find her next of kin. I don’t know how much more of this stuff I can take.
Sounds like the last 2 years of my life.
I’m about driven into the ground myself, too but we must fight for Lynn-Dah!