I’m making the case of why she thinks it. If she is Once Saved Always Saved, she may be basing her answer on something that happened when St T was young. His behavior becomes irrelevant if that is the Theology.
Otherwise, she has to believe “We gave up on him and now he’s in Hell”.
Oh i was addressing the behavior doesn’t = heaven statement.
And yes, I agree, of course she thinks that or had to think it...it would drive a mom insane.
And I wasn’t arguing with you, sorry if it came across that way.
I always love to hear what you have to say .....on a variety of subjects.