I’m not suggesting a prolonged fight with no progress. I’m suggesting an organized planned response led by the organized churches to take back the leadership and weed out the problems.
If we can’t win the next meeting, or at least see a path to winning, then it’s time to abandon them. But just like those churches, the good people can run and have to start from scratch, or you can man up right now and deal with the leadership problem.
The fake theater of concern about homosexual adult leader is just that, and will soon be dropped.
Would you remain a member of a "gay church" because you and a small group of opposing parishioners thought you could somehow redeem it?