Hmm, many child molesters claim that their victims like the sex, or even "ask for it". Molestation includes grooming, befriend, engendering trust, and then often the use of porn/drugs/alchol, and voila! It's consensual.
And for a "Catholic Grandmother" you are certainly getting hot under the collar defending a homosexual predating on a young teenage girl.
Odd.
I suggest you take a course in logic.
Or maybe don’t try so hard to find things that aren’t there.
NON CONSENSUAL TOUCH IS A CRIME WHATEVER THE AGE.
Children cannot consent. Neither can those with mental disabilities. Period. Ever.