they are angry because no amount of others’ approval stamps out the feelings inside that tells them they are doing wrong, they are not normal, they are not right.
this is why they are implacable. nothing ever is enough, because no amount of anything will ever make them think they are normal and right.
its like when you know you failed at something and everyone is telling you you’re awesome. it doesn’t help, it makes it worse most of the time, because it doesn’t change the fact you know inside you screwed up and you’re not awesome and people saying you are doesn’t help.