I was in charge of athletic teams at a Summer retreat. I was not the coach just the guy who had to arrange for referees, see that they got paid that sort of stuff. We had 3 girls on our team who were all three real babes.
One of them was heterosexual I am certain. One was definitely a dyke tho I wasn’t sure until a few years later I saw she had gotten involved with a Lesbian group. The third girl I was not sure but thought it was a better than 50-50 chance that she was. That last girl was the prettiest one of them all tho the lesbian was pretty darn hot. I actually wondered if I might have been able to change her in a romantic way.
I later learned that both the lesbians were just what I thought they were and the non lesbian was not one.
I see a lot of lesbians who are ugly, mean spirited and rude. These two girls were both pleasant to boys and I could imagine a really handsome boy maybe changing them to our side.
some lesbians are over the top...but I know some who are rather meek, mild...same with gay men....not all are obnoxious and arrogant...