So take VJ to Benghazi with him. She won't be able to drive a car, attend school, walk on the street without a blood relative, be safe from her daughters getting popped in the head because they can read, keep her lady parts intact, or wear that spring outfit anymore, but hey they will be able to hear the most beutiful sound in the world five times a day.
Of course that is followed by the filler of screams, explosions, blood spewing, mortars, and rape, but some beautiful sounds don't come free ya know.