You sure can’t mandate sterilization, and considering how many people who can manage to live on their own can’t manage the faithful use of birth control, I think you might be expecting a bit much in this circumstance.
One of the implants, perhaps. Lasts several years, goes in the upper arm, requires no special care after the insertion point heals.
Seems like it would be absolutely ideal in this case, since there’s nothing to forget or mess up, only basic wound care for a few days after it’s put in.
You need to get up to speed on the modern forms of birth control. It’s not just the pill or condom anymore. There is an implant that lasts for three years at a time. You literally get a shot with the implant, takes about 2 minutes for the whole procedure. Don’t have to think about it until time to replace it.
You sure can mandate it. It’s been done before for folks with inheritable disabilities.
Aggravates me to no end to see those same ideas defended here.