gHow do you know it was him? She says he's the only one she ever sent pictures to...what do you want to bet he shared them with his buddies? She's an idiot and a pervert. I find it very hard to feel sympathy for her. Both of them are creeps and sleazeballs. Sending a a video of yourself masturbating is simply disgusting. I can't relate with the need or desire to do that at all. If my wife had ever sent me something like that when we were dating that would have been the last correspondence we ever had and vice versa.
What if she posted them herself with the idea of making some bucks and getting revenge on her ex?
I think that sums it up.