If dahmer were standing next to Jesus?
How about if all 19 of the wtc attack were standing next to Jesus?
What kind of question is that?
If I were fortunate enough to see Jesus in the afterlife ,and saw him next to a proven scumbag mass murderer, I would wonder why allow the suffering in the first place.
Not being perfect, I see no reason to forgive scumsucking mass murderers while they breathe the same air as those they maimed.
Now, if they become separated from their pure souls after death, then maybe there is something there to consider forgiving.
It is just a question and despite your long post you did not answer it either.
Forgiveness is not yours to grant.
It is a defeatist attitude, and one I personally have found unpleasing to God, when you rationalize doing, or not doing something, simply because you know you can never be perfect. We are, that is if you’re a Christian, called to TRY and be “perfect” or Christ-like. In other words, I cannot forgive certain acts of evil people either, but instead of wallow in it I do pray that God give me some kind of path to forgiveness because I know that He does not want for us to have bitterness in our hearts.