If they had sent their straight friend over to place the order for the flowers, she would have still declined because it was for an activity --- not a disfavored person, but an activity --- she could not morally support.
It had nothing to do with any animus against the individual person who came to the counter.
That’s what I was trying to say. You said it so much better.
: )
Not to mention the fact that for a wedding, the florist would usually go to the church for the set-up and breakdown of arrangements. That was probably too involved for her comfort.