What is the one of the greatest examples of mass murder in our day? Well, one of them is Mao's mass murder of tens of millions of his own citizens. But another is the ongoing infanticide of 60-70 million unborn. "Women's right to abortion." It is a deception and it isn't "gentle" or "soft." It is heartless and savage. Women have been deceived into this, whereas men, for the most part, go along with it.
So you could say men's leadership might deliberately cause pain and suffering more than that of women. But I think you could say that women's leadership (potentially) results in much unintentional pain and suffering becasue they're guided much more emotionally and are much more subject to believing a lie.
Sexist ! /s. However, Anyone who has ever coached a girs basketball team can tell you that that women are indeed Venusians. Girls are scary.No wonder so many guys go gay: girls are scarily different.