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Ellen's Mum: Not Supporting Gay Marriage is Bullying
The Border Mail ^ | March 26, 2013 | Ian Horner

Posted on 03/26/2013 4:07:19 PM PDT by nickcarraway

Betty DeGeneres, 82, is a gay rights campaigner and the mother of the world's most famous lesbian, not necessarily in that order.

Ellen DeGeneres has a TV audience of at least 4 million viewers per episode in the US alone and is here in Australia to film segments for her show.

Betty is here, too, and addressed a PFLAG meeting at Westmead last Saturday. PFLAG is a worldwide organisation providing information and support to the families and friends of gay and lesbians.*

Betty says it was hard enough for Ellen to come out once, at age 20, to her family – let alone a second time, in her 30s, to 36 million people. That time it almost cost her everything.

And Betty is keen to get a message through to Julia Gillard.

You're outspoken about bullying in schools. Some feel our politicians' failure to support marriage equality is bullying. ''Yes it is! It's all bullying. I'd love to get a message through to your Prime Minister. Maybe she should pay attention to what's going on in the United States right now! A lot of people are gonna find out they were on the wrong side of history. Marriage equality will be OK.

''It's like the Civil Rights movement in the US. Years ago our situation was awful. You couldn't have marriage between two different races. Ridiculous! Today it's such past history.

''Your leaders should pay attention to what's really happening and get with it. All bullying is bad.

''My friend, a retired English teacher, 92, said to me: 'Ellen was bullied.' I thought quickly back to her school days. She didn't come out til after high school and she wasn't bullied at school. But my friend said when Ellen came out on her sitcom and all the advertisers pulled out and she lost her show, that was bullying. By the ones who had more power.''

A gay child comes out in their own time. The parent can be caught off-guard and ill-prepared. What's it like for parents suddenly outed as parents of gay children? How ostracised can they be made to feel? ''That's a very interesting question. I've never had a question like that. Ellen told me she was gay a long time ago, when she was 20. After that, all our family knew and it was fine with everyone. But as she became more famous she wasn't out publicly. I was afraid I would out her. I couldn't join PFLAG until Ellen came out because it'd be, you know, what's Ellen's mother doing in PFLAG?!''

Was there a moment you wished Ellen had been straight? ''No, because I loved her and when she told me she was gay I still loved her. The first thing I thought was she'd suddenly be an object of bigotry and discrimination. You just have to help end the bigotry and help educate people.''

How can a parent instil a sense of affirmation and pride in a gay child, when they're bombarded with daily messages that say you're not OK? ''That's so awful. Having a good relationship with them to begin with helps tremendously. Always have faith in them, always stand behind them.''

How did Ellen come out to you? ''We were walking on the beach together at my sister's house in Mississippi, just an hour from New Orleans. Ellen stopped and I turned round. She was crying and I said what's wrong? She said: 'Mum, I'm gay.' She was crying because she didn't know how I'd take it. I hugged her and all these thoughts immediately ran through my mind, you know, my girl-next-door daughter will suddenly be an object of bigotry. It was all I could think about. That wasn't OK with me.

See your ad here ''And now kids are coming out at high school and junior high and being able to admit who they are. Not then.''

You've been on your daughter's show a lot, with countless standing ovations. To the average viewer it looks like you've got it all together. Thousands of mums would watch and think it's not that easy for me. What can you say to those who really struggle? ''I'd say get yourself to a PFLAG meeting. That's Parents and Family and Friends of Lesbians and Gays. It's the most wonderful organisation and you have it in Australia. We have it all over the United States. They have monthly meetings and parents like me who have gay kids and we love them. You know, I also have a son [Vance] who isn't gay but he can't help it. Parents who are struggling can get to a PFLAG meeting or log onto pflagaustralia.org.au and hear the stories of parents who are going through what you're going through but they're so OK with it. You have to let your children be who they are.

''When Ellen came out she wrote me a letter. I'd remarried and was living in a different city, she'd gone back to live in New Orleans right after high school. She wrote that she didn't expect me to ever understand. Well, I think I understand. I think I got past that. The more I met all her friends, I liked them and, you know, there was just really no difference.''

* This sentence has been updated.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Extended News; Politics/Elections
KEYWORDS: bullying; degeneres; demagogicparty; homosexualagenda; nambla; sodomy; ssm
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To: Lumper20

Good for your wife!


21 posted on 03/26/2013 4:26:43 PM PDT by Ann Archy
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To: nickcarraway

Soon it will be mandatory to engage in same sex sexual relations to graduate from high school.


22 posted on 03/26/2013 4:28:03 PM PDT by Iron Munro (Welcome to Obama-Land - EVERYTHING NOT FORBIDDEN IS COMPULSORY)
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To: nickcarraway

Lets just save time

ANY liberal agenda you disagree with is Bullying/
Racist/Mean. Unless you support liberal agenda you are a horrible person.

OK, There- that cover everything?


23 posted on 03/26/2013 4:28:18 PM PDT by Mr. K (There are lies, damned lies, statistics, and democrat talking points.)
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To: Admin Moderator
I'm sorry. Please delete #9. Borders on inexcusable profanity. I always seem to lose my cool (what little I've ever had) around liberals. They get to me every time.
24 posted on 03/26/2013 4:33:05 PM PDT by LibWhacker
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To: nickcarraway

The Left had a collective hissy fit when Ellen’s gal pal “went all crazy” and married a man.


25 posted on 03/26/2013 4:34:22 PM PDT by a fool in paradise (America 2013 - STUCK ON STUPID)
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To: nickcarraway

Bully for Betty.


26 posted on 03/26/2013 4:36:10 PM PDT by skeeter
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To: nickcarraway

so if you don’t praise and affirm sodomites and carpet munchers, you’re a bully.

first time NOT doing anything to someone has been called bullying.

idiots run the asylum.


27 posted on 03/26/2013 4:42:29 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man (I can neither confirm or deny that; even if I could, I couldn't - it's classified.)
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To: dfwgator

“close-minded” to reject faggot advances...


28 posted on 03/26/2013 4:43:39 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man (I can neither confirm or deny that; even if I could, I couldn't - it's classified.)
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To: Mr. K

ANY liberal agenda you disagree with is Bullying/
Racist/Mean. Unless you support liberal agenda you are a horrible person.

That has become the reality in Minnesota.


29 posted on 03/26/2013 4:44:34 PM PDT by Fred Hayek (The Democratic Party is now the operational arm of the CPUSA)
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To: doc1019

Exactly right.

Degenerate is a queer and her Momma is a dingbat.

She has placed her child over knowledge of what is right and wrong and over her love of God.
Certainly you can still love the child without saying that being queer is ok.


30 posted on 03/26/2013 4:45:02 PM PDT by Venturer
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To: Gay State Conservative

No I think that would hit the nail on the head.


31 posted on 03/26/2013 4:46:02 PM PDT by Venturer
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To: nickcarraway
oh, that’s on its way. Especially, in the military.

Oh, yes. If you harshly reject a gay person's advances, you will likely be brought up on charges for hate speech.

32 posted on 03/26/2013 4:49:42 PM PDT by PapaBear3625 (You don't notice it's a police state until the police come for you.)
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To: nickcarraway

I think it is time for the Orthodox religions, maybe with the more conservative Protestant religions, to reach an ecumenical agreement that the only marriage they will recognize is between a man and a woman.

Each religion may add to these restrictions, but none may accept less. If a couple are not married by the lights of their church, their church will not recognize them as married, in fact or nominally. The same agreement includes the ending of marriages in annulment or divorce.


33 posted on 03/26/2013 4:50:55 PM PDT by yefragetuwrabrumuy (Best WoT news at rantburg.com)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet
Speaking of bullying.

By accusing the other side of what you are doing, you are trying to immunize yourselves from the same charges.

34 posted on 03/26/2013 4:50:58 PM PDT by oldbrowser (They are marxists, don't call them democrats)
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To: oldbrowser

Classic Alinsky.


35 posted on 03/26/2013 4:51:55 PM PDT by 2ndDivisionVet (I'll raise $2million for Sarah Palin's presidential run. What'll you do?)
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To: LibWhacker

post it in private to me please


36 posted on 03/26/2013 5:03:09 PM PDT by al baby (Hi Mom)
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To: nickcarraway
Ellen DeGeneres has a TV audience of at least 4 million viewers per episode in the US alone...

Sounds like an episode of herpes or something.

37 posted on 03/26/2013 5:36:32 PM PDT by Standing Wolf
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To: nickcarraway

I thought Tammy Bruce was the world most famous lesbian.


38 posted on 03/26/2013 5:43:52 PM PDT by fkabuckeyesrule
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To: nickcarraway

the left are retards


39 posted on 03/26/2013 6:00:23 PM PDT by GeronL (http://asspos.blogspot.com)
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To: nickcarraway

no way she has those ratings.

maybe she has an obscure cable net that has that many subscribers.

now we know who reinforced deviant behavior in the young child.


40 posted on 03/26/2013 7:01:47 PM PDT by longtermmemmory (VOTE! http://www.senate.gov and http://www.house.gov)
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