Disgusting and frightening. I was raised by a woman and around a bunch of men haters. If anything, I’ve gone through life scared of women. Even with my newlywed wife, I’m afraid to have children but not because she might take me for a ride in the courts but because of what I went through as a child of a single mother.
Two words: postnuptial agreement. Of course, since you are already married, this may require some couples counseling.