There is no dignity in homosexuality. It's a degrading, sick perversion. I won't excuse any of the "straight" people you're talking about, but there is just no way two sodomites who mess with each other's filthy anal areas, thus exposing themselves to disease and disorder, are "better" or have more dignity.
I hate to tell you this, but some heterosexuals engage in this practice as well, or so I am told.