However, just because you drink too much doesn't give ANYONE license to violate you. Any suggestion otherwise is BEYOND contempt and shows a severe lack of empathy (considering at one time or another, most of us have been this drunk).
We have a constitutional right, a fundamental right, to be secure in our persons...and anyone who violates THAT is the one who is "a disgrace to their family and community."
I HIGHLY doubt Reagan would have agreed with your opinion.
Her conduct was disgraceful. Therefore she is a disgrace.
You just want to excuse her because she is a female and ran into the trouble because of her own disgraceful conduct.
Had she not engaged in the disgraceful conduct she would not have run into the trouble & had the problem.