Liberalism has been eroding many aspects of our culture. This is just one more example.
I have 2 grandsons....totally lost, given the women’s lib, the gays, and the federal government, all lined up against the male...the future is bleak for young men...
“So whereas men can’t find women in China, young adult women struggle to find young adult men, at least men worth finding, in the United States.”
Well boo hoo. Sorry, but as a young adult man I feel no sympathy. I hate how a lot of guys my age still act like teens, but lets be honest, the system’s biased against us.
Why waste time on dates with women,(which cost money and time and heartache) when there’s a good chance she’ll get bent out of shape because she finds what used to be “chivalry” sexist or misogyny.
Say you do get married. What’s to stop her from taking everything and the kids because she gets all goo-goo eyed for some other guy? I’ve had plenty of other guys tell me just that, they feel disposable.
The culture’s messed up, and lots of guys rather just drop out than try to find the decent women. Feminism is creating victims for both genders.
The moment my first son was born (14 years ago), I was very aware of gender discrimination and the way society tried to mock and humiliate my son for being male. I promised myself that I would fight this discrimination from shaping him, and I have for the most part. I fight tooth and nail with my own feminist parents and inlaws, school officials and medical people.
It was hard at first ,and lonely, but trust me, no one messes with me now. My boys will be treated fairly or they will get a kind of wrath, from me, that doesn’t stop. I just wear that concept, that I won’t stand for sexism, so comfortably that people don’t even start with me.
I had a conversation yesterday, with a Mom (while her son stood nearby) about his school experience, and she just mocked him and humiliated him (her own son) .. and he just looked off sadly. I hated that, and I leaned in close to him and told him that I really appreciate how great boys are, and how they are so smart, and he flashed a smile. I read it in his eyes that he was happy to be appreciated for more than sports.
Feminists have conditioned mothers to have detain for their own sons, for no reason. Women need to start to push back and say NO. No more.
The three primary factors that he argues have had the unintended consequence of feminizing boys are changes at school (less competition combined with less experiential, more book learning), video games and medications for ADHD. It’s a combination of social, cultural, and biological factors that don’t fall along strictly ideologically lines; but unfortunately political correctness has such a stranglehold on modern thought the very idea that males, of any age, could need our society’s attention does appear to be anathema to liberal thinking.
I have an “educated” niece that posted to face book her admiration to a friend, who is an instructor somewhere, making a point to randomly giving pink colored poster paper to boys to, “introduce” them to gender options.
It is a complete waste of my time to argue with her. She is totally blind to the fact the reason the Catholic church has so many priest that prey on children is because the homosexuals have taken it over, not to mention the public school systems. She blind to what the lesbians have done to the Girl Scouts.
Plus, she is totally for homosexual acceptance by the Boy Scouts. It just pisses me off. She has a masters from Georgetown and is a 30 something from a wealthy family. She is dumb as a rock.
A fine article. Thank you so very much for posting it.
Megan
Boys are DRIVEN to the fantasy world of video games. D R I V E N. And why? Because liberals have outlawed or demonized any outlet men, young and old, used to have.
So before this turns into a video game bashing thread, I ask that people think about the above before screaming that Mario, Halo or Skyrim is the root of all evil.
Good post. Yes, both political parties have already done that damage for decades. Have fun. Enjoy the slide.
Gov’t schools,indeed government in virtually manifestation has been telling our boys that they must strive to be more like girls, and girls should strive to become like men. Boys get the message; the world can get along just fine without the personal qualities that masculinity offers. The final bastion, military service, is in the process of becoming both feminized and gender-neutralized.
Just like most of our societal problems all it takes is a refusal to be intimidated by the bullying usually directed at anyone who questions popularly 'acceptable' opinions.
Public school demonizes boys. Homeschool your sons!
As a Christian I can say many many churches are at fault for feminizing men. I’m not talking about having compassion or true christian virtues but twisted interpretations of the Gospels.
the left has done this to minimize male refusal to go along with their agenda. males normally are more independent than females. they will fight totalitarian authority and this is where the real threat lies to liberal power structures. girls can be coerced to go along with carrots or sticks far more easily. so they essentially have to destroy maleness.
if more people knew this and explained it to boys and their dads, we’d all bebetter off. church folks, this means you too, you can expose what is going on.
I remember when femenazis made most of the major changes we see in public education in the name of equality for girls in the 80’s. Central was to enforce “cooperative” learning and “values based” education because they said girls do better in that enviornment. They also demanded liberal teachers call on girls who were slow to respond to questions and ignore white boys whose hands would shoot up to answer the question first. I noticed teachers graded subjective papers in obvious favor of girls when my oldest son was in high school. The research paper he wrote for his girlfriend at the last minute (she screwed up and needed a lot of help to pass) got an “A” and his paper got a “C.” He wrote his better.
I knew the changes to education made by feminists would be a bad enviornment for boys. It was designed to be a bad end for boys as it was designed and installed by lesbo radicals who hate males. Equality would be acheived through hobbling heterosexual males - especially white males.
They are back with the gay agenda and they are hunting boys.
They tried to put my own son on drugs in his elemetary school. It was nuts. They were pushing drugs on boys like crazy in the late 90s because the feminist teachers did not like the male nature. Not all, but most had a harder time focusing in the “cooperative” learning enviornment (noisey and a loose, disorganized structure compared to the boy’s learning enviornment feminists replaced).
Zero tolerance was introduced to make males, basically, a serious offense at school.
This article says “to be a parent” trouble is most boys and girls don’t have a father instead have a baby’s daddy. Just not the same thing.
The video games thing could be an issue, but the rest of the problems he described can be dodged by homeschooling.
I met a teacher who teaches teachers not children. She would not tell me everything but she teaches gender neutrality. Girls touch each other lovingly and brush each others hair and they want boys to do stuff like that as well so they play games that encourage that