So was he born with both parts? I know a girl that was in my school that that happened to. She was a little “butch” looking but turned out to be a model and a beautiful woman. I think at some point she had surgery to remove the “male” parts. Not sure if this is what happened to this child though.
They are not talking about an Hermaphrodite, they are talking "transgendered" which simply means a person who thinks they should be the opposite sex. A 3 yo child is hardly qualified to make that sort of decision, these parents should be tried and thrown in jail for child abuse.