Unless you mind my asking, what caused your wife to sour so badly toward you?
And whose children have been alienated from him by the ex-shrew AND whose children are massively failing at school and on mega meds, yet told by the school district that his opinion "doesn't count" since he's non-custodial. Obviously you live in a RED state where father's rights still apply.
We were about to get married. We had an argument about her controlling aspects. I still wanted to get married and be her husband but she would have none of it and ordered me out.
I complied.
I begged her to reconsider.
She declined.
In the end I feel as if I dodged a bullet but I desperately hope our son didn’t catch it. As far as I’m concerned it’s all about him now.
I don’t begrudge her the child support but she necessitated the lawsuit. Her idea of access was 15 minutes a week. The court’s idea was three hours with the option of more should I jump through a myriad of hoops and prove it.
I didn’t even challenge her custody. I just want to be a father to our son. I love and want to have a hand in raising him.
It seems as if the forces of culture and the government are against that.
I honestly don’t know what to do other then hope, pray and carry on alone.