Taking care of them shouldn’t be forced on me.
Likewise, I should not force healthier living on them.
If only we had a free country, this would be a non-issue.
Indeed... it used to be some commonly agreed idea of what God wanted was enough to keep low level misbehavior in check. For example, if you got extraordinarily too fat you’d likely be looked at as a glutton, even though there was not a single law banning gluttony.