maybe you should teach a class on the appropriate grieving methods. It is clear that many people have no idea the wide range of methods people have to handle loss and grief.
Many people simply segregate the loss, and shut it out, and refuse to think about it. They tell nice stories, without letting themselves remember that their child is gone; any tiny little thing will set them off in an emotional dispair, like if someone walks up to them during the story and says “I’m so sorry your child is gone”.
Most of this conspiracy theory is based on a childishly ignorant lack of understanding of the range of human emotions.
Would expect some differences in how they reacted. Also odd (imo) to give media interviews so soon.