Are you denying that this happened???
By process of elimination anyone, even you, can find out who that child was/is. The names and pictures of her deceased schoolmates are a matter of record.
After finding her name then go to her house and talk to her parents and neighbors if you so wish.
It sure is easy to sit on the internet and play skeptick when the facts that you are denying are available to you and verifiable with a little effort.
IMO you’ve already been plenty generous with your time and keystrokes and JR’s bandwith dealing with these questions.