Personally, I'm not expecting the military to be on my side in any domestic conflict.
If it turns out they are, well great.
I expect them to be neutered by order nullification and the fact Nobama is gutting them. I also expect some “friendly sabotage” when the time comes. Watch how much ammo walks off bases if things really go south.
I see the feds taking the lead until they see they are flat outnumbered and taking casualties they will arrogantly deny. State and local LEO will be too busy protecting their own and the ones that do stay at work will be busy chasing looters and protecting elected officials and landmark structures. State Guard units will be decimated by the members that stay home unless a foreign force is introduced.