Bob I understand all too well. As a woman growing up in the 80’s I didn’t want to get married or have children because the men were such freaks and all my friends who were married were miserable. Most were divorced like you described. Suddenly in my mid thirties I “fell in love” with this man I’ll be married to for 22 years next month. Our daughter was a “surprise”.
BTW, ain’t gonna be no living together with our Southern daughter. I’ll see to that as long as I’m alive. ;D! The boyz that come around here see a baseball bat and a machete at our front door. They “get the message”! No worries with your opinions. Everyone is entitled you know? For good reason most of the time. poobear
Wow, you did luck out. Obviously I’m generalizing. In fact my own (immigrant, though) wife was over 30 when we first met. Anyway, congrats, and best of luck.