The media screwed that one up, too. The father lives in Connecticut. According to The Danbury CT News Times, he came home to find a reporter staked out in his driveway. He politely asked “May I help you”, and then turned pale as a ghost when he was told that his address was connected to the massacre (Police were there earlier in the day).
Early thread here at FR had older brothers Facebook page link.
It showed two states for him.
Maybe he was home for Christmas break and that’s how the younger brother got the ID.