Hmmm. Seems the man did a terrible thing to the woman’s life here. But if you insist on blaming the victim, go right ahead, I’m sure you have your reasons.
No matter what most people think, women can be cruel and vindictive creatures, those that think otherwise are fools.
Remember that during the Indian wars the women did the butchering after the battle. WE have an idealistic view of the man, woman relationship that does not past the history test.