You can pretend it was an accident, but its not possible to do those things by accident. You did them intentionally. You showed the world what your character consists of, just like when you worked for Bammy
An “accident” or “oops, I messed up” is a one nighter. He took on a friggin’ mistress.
‘...You did them intentionally. You showed the world what your character consists of,....’
exactly. Some on TV commented ‘what happened to Petraeus was sad’.....didn’t “HAPPEN” to him; he brought it on himself.