You make a good point. Always demonizing our side only helps the other side. We do that all the time. We give the left what they need to ruin us.
I dislike Boehner, but Obama is the real problem.
You can NOT give Boehner a pass while saying Obama is the problem.
Boehner agrees to things he never should and lacks the will to do what it’s going to take to fix this.
That makes him part of the problem. Not the solution. He needs to step down and allow someone with the guts to shut it down take his place.