"Everything in moderation" has been lost in the debate. Part of the reason, I think, is that the media tends to report any discussion about where we go as a "horse race", and judging from the posts here and from the posts on Huffington, there is this attitude the politics is a zero-sum game. WINNERS and LOSERS.
Even pResident Obama has expressed his zero-sum view of politics with two words during the budget debate: "I won." And with that, we all lost.
The math of economics doesn't have to be a zero-sum exercise. The math of governing doesn't have to be a zero-sum exercise, either. If you are a free-individual believer, test that belief against what you would prohibit others from doing. How does it directly harm *you*? That should be the test for any prohibition. How does your prohibition keep you from doing the act?
Part of the reason I consider both political "brands" as tainted is because I see difference only in details, not degree or level of hypocrisy.
For the religious, I suggest you look up Matthew 7:3 and ponder the reams of words behind the single line.
And to what are you referring when you say "If you are a free-individual believer, test that belief against what you would prohibit others from doing. How does it directly harm *you*?"