Well, he was kinda sorta raised by her *singularly* very briefly before being thrown to his grandparents while she went off to persue her career of serial boinking.
There was a brief time - right after he was born and his father abandoned them.
It didn’t take long for her to take up with Lolo Soetero.
She was not a single mother during this time - and her husband had a good income.
And then he was shipped back to Hawaii - raised by grandparents - who also had a good income.
This narrative about spending his childhood with a struggling single mom is a lie.