If you’re committed, you get through the most of the bad stuff, and I expect we will too. My parents were in counseling at the same time in life, because Dad had retired from the Navy after almost 30 years ... and it was disastrous. They sorted it out, though, and so will we!
At least haven’t been through multiple year-long separations. I could have married a Naval officer, but I wasn’t having any of that! If I’d wanted to live single, I’d have stayed single!
God bless you, your husband and all your lovely kids. We’re thinking about you!
You and your family will be in my prayers!