"You and I can arm wrestle ... or I can bring you a target with my face on it!" So, you actually don't want my ilk to spoil the festivities, but you want to sound accomodating? ... I use a wheelchair to get around my home and for shopping, so I can carry things in my teeth. Arms drive non-electric chairs. You really don't want to embarrass yourself arm wrestling me. And as to the target, well, Homeland has already got targets with just folks on them, for storm trooper practice. I don't use those targets, either.
When you use a chair to get around, and without a spouse to assist, extended traveling is an amazing hastle.