May God grant you a good and righteous outcome!
The brass that put these policies into place are the ones who have shoved this burden upon you, forcing you into this degenerate and hostile command climate that embraces such depravity. I can't begin to express my disgust for those who have fomented the systemic atmosphere of sexual tension, abuse, and harrassment.
These kinds of reprobate enablers would also be inclined to punish the mentally normal by saying, "Okay, *you* don't want these soldiers living separately within their own [filthy] pervertville, then fine, we will make you room with them, and you will have no reason to complain. Get over it or GTFO of our military, you intolerant, homophobic moralizer."
Ugh. Prayers for your continued strength and courage. I never thought I'd see the day when military leaders would remind me of the folks waiting outside Lot's place, as Lot did nothing more than answer his front door.