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I wish my mother had aborted me
The Guardian ^ | 8/15/2012 | Lynn Beisner

Posted on 08/15/2012 10:35:00 AM PDT by mojito

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To: Lazamataz
If you find you are drinking too much, there is a solution to ALL of lifes 'bullshit', it's call AA. ALL of lifes bs can be addressed there. I am someone who made it to the other side -- life is wonderful, for me.

Happy for ya, been there, got the tshirt,,, all BS, they all say life sucks, deal with it. Tried volunteering, wound up washing dishes for lazy black gov employees coming to free lunch. Even posted free AC/heating repair for elderly on Craigslist, got calls from welfare families with many unemployed kids living there, refused the job.Yes I asked who all lived there? Tried volunteering for a hospice, they never called back..

Let me make you some promises: If we are painstaking about this phase of our development, we will be amazed before we are half way through. We are going to know a new freedom and a new happiness. We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it. We will comprehend the word serenity and we will know peace. No matter how far down the scale we have gone, we will see how our experience can benefit others. That feeling of uselessness and self-pity will disappear. We will lose interest in selfish things and gain interest in our fellows. Self-seeking will slip away. Our whole attitude and outlook upon life will change. Fear of people and of economic insecurity will leave us. We will intuitively know how to handle situations which used to baffle us. We will suddenly realize that God is doing for us what we could not do for ourselves. Are these extravagant promises? We think not. They are being fulfilled among us -- sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. They will always materialize if we work for them

here, you lost me.......

101 posted on 08/15/2012 3:43:19 PM PDT by MrPiper
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To: MrPiper

Would you consider working with me? Reply in freepmail.


102 posted on 08/15/2012 4:12:46 PM PDT by Lazamataz (I love the Universe, and it loves me.)
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To: MrPiper

Got the Bucket List covered, do you?


103 posted on 08/15/2012 4:39:56 PM PDT by BraveMan
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To: mojito
An abortion would have absolutely been better for my mother.

Even though you are a pro infanticide marxist Lynn, I can't agree with your statement. Matter of fact Lynn, I'll pray for your soul.

5.56mm

104 posted on 08/15/2012 4:54:21 PM PDT by M Kehoe
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To: mojito

This is one sick article.

I admit, that second man’s story, that he remembers the attempt to abort him in utero was pretty unbelievable.

But then this one goes on and on about what a dreadful life her mother had, and yet bemoans that this same women couldn’t maintain the economic level of her family. Was that the same family that was beating, abusing and molesting her?

This author sounds very troubled. She doesn’t seem to see any joy or happiness in life at all. I can see thinking “my mother should have aborted me” for some time during your teenage years. But by the time you are grown up and a mother yourself you should be a little past that.

She needs help this woman, and probably medication. I suppose her own children are very lucky to be alive. I hope at least THEY can be happy about that.

Liberalism really IS a mental disease.


105 posted on 08/15/2012 5:11:08 PM PDT by jocon307
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To: mojito

You mean that’s not satire? This broad is actually serious?

GAK!


106 posted on 08/15/2012 5:21:41 PM PDT by TheOldLady
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To: mojito; wagglebee
Proverbs 8:36b: “All they that hate me love death.”

Sometimes nothing more needs to be said beyond the plain words of the text.

107 posted on 08/15/2012 5:32:31 PM PDT by darrellmaurina
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To: mojito

Yawn! (At the title.) Dog bites man. “I wish my mother hadn’t aborted me”, would have been the news!


108 posted on 08/15/2012 5:36:08 PM PDT by Revolting cat! (Bad things are wrong!)
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69 posted on Wed Aug 15 2012 14:12:11 GMT-0500 (Central Daylight Time) by livius: “This woman needs prayers and fast! Unfortunately, the time she spent in some weird hyper-Calvinist ‘Christian’ sect seems to have poisoned her against Christianity and reinforced in her the idea that she is evil and worthless.”

Link, please, for the reference to her being a member of a Calvinist church? Not saying it's not there but I don't see it.

You have every right in America to your beliefs, but I'm not the only Freeper who is a Calvinist. If an accusation is going to be made, I want to see documentation that the abusive church of which this woman was a member was actually a Calvinist church of some type. Of course, since I believe in total depravity I am very willing to believe there is some horrible pastor out there in a Reformed church who would do horrible things to kids and young women. I've reported on enough church sex scandals to know that Satan is not absent in the lives of ordained men -- in fact, he just might be working overtime against those in church leadership.

109 posted on 08/15/2012 5:44:36 PM PDT by darrellmaurina
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To: DuncanWaring

Yeah, what a horror! By the age of fourteen I had been expected to do everything I could to help out for about ten years. I had been walking behind a plow for four years, cutting firewood longer than that, picking cotton for half my life. Gathering and husking corn to feed the stock, gathering the eggs, feeding, milking the cow, the list goes on and on. I actually did get to watch TV and listen to the radio, read interesting books and wear jeans. I suppose I had it made in the shade as we used to say in Carolina but only someone who has grown up spending his summer “vacations” from school walking back and forth across a field behind a plow in the South Carolina sun has any idea of what it was like.

My mother would have strangled anyone who suggested to her that any woman should have an abortion.


111 posted on 08/15/2012 7:44:40 PM PDT by RipSawyer (Free healthcare is worth FAR LESS than it costs.)
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To: mojito
Someone should do an interview of her mother and see what she has to say. Does she wish she had aborted her child. If she loves her child, I am sure not.

Life isn't about having it easy, and being able to afford the toys you want, and doing all the things you want to do. It is about love. Often when things are harder, it is when love thrives.

In the end it isn't about how much materialistic quality our lives were lived under, but rather how much we loved God and each other. Families are places where God ordained love to best be lived out. If her/his mother had aborted her/him she may never of had another child and lived a much lonelier life. Doing the abortion would have left the mom only half a person emotionally, either denying and suppressing the guilt and shame, which often causes mental problems and inability to really experience love, or having to face the horrible fact that she killed her precious baby and live the rest of her life out in sadness and guilt (Which only salvation by Christ can liberate one from.).

The greatest stories in life are the stories of love triumphing in hard circumstances. These stories leave the person who experienced them with a richness that the person who wrote this article apparently has little or no concept of.

112 posted on 08/15/2012 9:33:05 PM PDT by Bellflower (The LORD is Holy, separated from all sin, perfect, righteous, high and lifted up.)
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To: mojito
“She lives in the American South-East with her children, husband and...”

...after they read this they're making plans to move without a forwarding address if they have any sense.

113 posted on 08/15/2012 9:55:43 PM PDT by decal (I'm not rude, I don't suffer fools is all.)
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To: darrellmaurina
Proverbs 8:36b: “All they that hate me love death.”

Sometimes nothing more needs to be said beyond the plain words of the text.

Same Bible verse occurred to me after reading this article.

114 posted on 08/15/2012 10:21:48 PM PDT by Bellflower (The LORD is Holy, separated from all sin, perfect, righteous, high and lifted up.)
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To: NFHale; mojito; sickoflibs

” Limbaugh was right; when these people are out of power, they’re pathetic and ridiculous. When they’re in power, they’re lethal and dangerous.”

Thazza fak Jak!


115 posted on 08/16/2012 12:14:37 PM PDT by stephenjohnbanker (God, family, country, mom, apple pie, the girl next door and a Ford F250 to pull my boat.)
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To: BraveMan
Got the Bucket List covered, do you?

yep, got the aircraftt pilots license, boats, helped the poor, built a house, gave money to church, hiked up mountains, walked the desert, saved a life.

I can say that life is not worth living

116 posted on 08/28/2012 4:06:59 PM PDT by MrPiper
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To: MrPiper
All it takes is the marriage to a women to suck the life right out of you,
117 posted on 08/28/2012 4:24:13 PM PDT by MrPiper
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To: BraveMan
Got the Bucket List covered, do you

oh, by the way, been praying for a heart attack, no answer yet.

118 posted on 08/28/2012 4:44:34 PM PDT by MrPiper
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To: MrPiper

I feel much the same way.

Every day above ground just gives me more opportunity to sin and fall short.

Yet God still requires my participation in this meaningless existence, chasing the wind. My punishment . . .


119 posted on 08/29/2012 8:29:41 AM PDT by BraveMan
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To: BraveMan
I feel much the same way.

Every day above ground just gives me more opportunity to sin and fall short.

Yet God still requires my participation in this meaningless existence, chasing the wind. My punishment . . .

yea, but thanks to booze, I do have something to look forward to. Tried the Jesus thing, no hope.

my bucket list is down to two naked twenty yr old females feeling magnanimous. :-)

ps, show me a new world without preachers or politicians, and I'll quit drinking!!!!

120 posted on 08/30/2012 1:50:51 PM PDT by MrPiper
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