Why men gag at men kissing and don’t at women is a classic gay nonsequitor..
Men are revolted at the thought of 2 men kissing because its something they want no part of... they don’t mind 2 ATTRACTIVE women kissing, because frankly they just want to join in. That’s not a proof of anything.
However, if you’ve ever actually been to a Lesbian bar, you’ll soon realize the myth of the lipstick lesbian is by and far more myth than reality. I sometimes go to a Lesbian bar just to boost my ego, because as a slightly overweight 40 year old guy with a bald spot I can walk into most lesbian bars and be one of the most attractive people in the room.
There are fundamental differences between male homosexuality and female homosexuality as well, which I think is at the forefront of why women are more accepting of the behavoir than men. But that’s a whole other conversation.
“There are fundamental differences between male homosexuality and female homosexuality as well”
Sin is sin and I refuse to ‘accept’ homosexuality in any degree.
[I suppose that answers your question about whether I’ve ever been in a gay bar]