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Growing Up With Two Moms: The Untold Children’s View
The Witherspoon Institute ^ | August 6,2011 | Robert Oscar Lopez

Posted on 08/07/2012 1:28:40 PM PDT by Hojczyk

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1 posted on 08/07/2012 1:28:45 PM PDT by Hojczyk
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To: Hojczyk

Interesting read, thanks.


2 posted on 08/07/2012 1:34:09 PM PDT by Menehune56 ("Let them hate so long as they fear" (Oderint Dum Metuant), Lucius Accius (170 BC - 86 BC))
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“Not surprisingly, I left high school as a virgin....”

Obviously, that could only be attributed to being raised by lesbians.


3 posted on 08/07/2012 1:39:23 PM PDT by Uncle Slayton
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This is what happens when what had been scientifically diagnosed a mental illness since the discipline of psychology began is arbitrarily deemed “cured” by the wicked mendacity of political correctness...

...homosexuals desperately need therapy but are either shamed or denigrated if they seek it...

...so we ALL suffer.

4 posted on 08/07/2012 1:40:30 PM PDT by Happy Rain ("11/10 was the biopsy 11/12 we remove the malignancy.")
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To: Hojczyk

Thanks so much for posting.
Very important piece, very enlightening, and I hope we hear a lot more of these stories (as I know they’re out there).


5 posted on 08/07/2012 1:41:33 PM PDT by scottjewell
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Wow. Wow, wow! What a great article. I recommend reading it in its entirety.

I did not grow up in a gay or bi household, but I am the product of two (hetero) artistic, atheistic intellectuals who did not relate well to outsiders, in a small Texas town. Needless to say, until I grew old enough to figure out the social changes I had to make to myself to be acceptable to society at large, I had a tough life. Growing up, I thought “weirdo” must be my middle name, as it was applied to me so often. So I really identify with the author of this piece.


6 posted on 08/07/2012 1:43:49 PM PDT by Hetty_Fauxvert ( "Be Breitbart, baby!")
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Oh, yeah. I'm sure the "news" media will jump right on this story.... (as soon as they figure out how to spin it against hetero's)
7 posted on 08/07/2012 1:46:20 PM PDT by jeffc (The U.S. media are our enemy)
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To: Uncle Slayton

So did I ... and I was raised by my biological mother and father. Not screwing around in school used to be considered a desirable outcome for children, but I guess that has changed.


8 posted on 08/07/2012 1:47:32 PM PDT by Tax-chick (If you can't say anything nice, have some more wine.)
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This is a brilliant article. Here's another "money quote":

I’m perceptive enough to notice that liberal social policies don’t actually help people in those conditions. Especially damning is the liberal attitude that we shouldn’t be judgmental about sex. In the Bronx gay world, I cleaned out enough apartments of men who’d died of AIDS to understand that resistance to sexual temptation is central to any kind of humane society. Sex can be hurtful not only because of infectious diseases but also because it leaves us vulnerable and more likely to cling to people who don’t love us, mourn those who leave us, and not know how to escape those who need us but whom we don’t love. The left understands none of that. That’s why I am conservative.

9 posted on 08/07/2012 1:50:49 PM PDT by Albion Wilde (Liberty means responsibility. That is why most men dread it. -- George Bernard Shaw)
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To: Hojczyk

Well written article. Thanks !


10 posted on 08/07/2012 1:50:49 PM PDT by jimt (Fear is the darkroom where negatives are developed.)
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To: Uncle Slayton
“Not surprisingly, I left high school as a virgin....”
Obviously, that could only be attributed to being raised by lesbians.

If you meant that as sarcasm, you need to read the whole article.

11 posted on 08/07/2012 1:52:07 PM PDT by Albion Wilde (Liberty means responsibility. That is why most men dread it. -- George Bernard Shaw)
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The children seem to be the overlooked factor in the gay-adoption scenario.

How does a child in such a circumstance learn to succeed in a pair-bonded world?

How do they come to know the yin and yang of the entirety of the animal kingdom?

Yes, such a child would find the world as strange as if it were another planet.

12 posted on 08/07/2012 1:52:12 PM PDT by Aevery_Freeman (All Y'all White Peoples is racist!)
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To: Hojczyk

Interesting. He brought up some points I had never thought of.


13 posted on 08/07/2012 1:53:18 PM PDT by Montanabound
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To: Hojczyk

bookmark this


14 posted on 08/07/2012 1:53:40 PM PDT by silverleaf (Age Takes a Toll: Please Have Exact Change)
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To: Uncle Slayton

Apparently my dad was a lesbian too.


15 posted on 08/07/2012 1:54:15 PM PDT by Sgt_Schultze (A half-truth is a complete lie)
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When you are a parent, ethical questions revolve around your children and you put away your self-interest . . . forever.

Wow, this man has really learned something.

16 posted on 08/07/2012 1:56:08 PM PDT by Tax-chick (If you can't say anything nice, have some more wine.)
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Great post. He explains perfectly what I have thought for a long time about of children of same-sex partners. I can extrapolate further—his experiences are similar to those children of any seriously dysfunctional family, without the same-sex experiences. God bless him. I hope he has happiness and joy in his life. Thanks for the post.


17 posted on 08/07/2012 1:56:15 PM PDT by DallasDeb (usafa06mom)
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To: Hetty_Fauxvert

I am the product of two (hetero) artistic, atheistic intellectuals who did not relate well to outsiders, in a small Texas town.”

You should tell your story! Even a fictionalized version. As a fine of artists, and intellectuals, and small TExas towns (atheists, not so much...), I think that is a fascinating mix and I can see how it would be wild for you.

You should tell your story! Change the names, protect the innocent, but get your story out!


18 posted on 08/07/2012 1:58:23 PM PDT by ConservativeDude
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To: Albion Wilde
Sex can be hurtful not only because of infectious diseases but also because it leaves us vulnerable and more likely to cling to people who don’t love us, mourn those who leave us, and not know how to escape those who need us but whom we don’t love.

This applies to heterosexual, too. Especially ones from dysfunctional families. (I have resembled the remarks above!)

19 posted on 08/07/2012 2:00:34 PM PDT by DallasDeb (usafa06mom)
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To: Sgt_Schultze

I think a lot of us see our selves in the author, or know of others like the author,


20 posted on 08/07/2012 2:02:16 PM PDT by DallasDeb (usafa06mom)
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