Are you saying that we should confine the terms we use to describe homosexual perverts to the single word "originally used to refer to feelings of being "carefree", "happy", or "bright and showy" that the sodomites have perverted, besmirched and stolen from the rest of us?
"'Gay' is OK..." Is that what you mean? Are you supporting the bastardization of a perfectly good adjective for immoral purposes?
IOW, what term is acceptable to you -- and why?
Use the words you like. In particular, I try not to use faggot. I’ve listened to Dennis Prager for 25 years, called him many times, and take his advice on how to battle the other side. We can make our case better and have a better chance to change minds if we do it through intellect rather than viscerally. But do it the way you wish if you think that works better in our culture war. I simply try to take away some of their ammunition.
In the parodies I do on YouTube, I try to do it with biting humor and mocking.