When my daughter was in college, the kids in groups all pretended to be homo tolerant. When they weren't in a group, the homo jokes were all over the place. In fact, some of the jokes she came home and told me about were really, really, disgusting. Believe me, they'd make the homos weep and gnash their teeth.
Pull the kids aside, and they'll tell you the truth. They think the homos are gross, too.
I’m sure that’s true. But no one wants to get called names or bullied so they toe the line and so it seems to everyone else that most people agree.