Really. Your father finds you passed out, drunk, and raped by a gang of homosexuals, and his only concern would be on punishing you for drinking?
Sad, very sad. If that is true, you had an awful father, and a horrible role model.
As you apparently base your view of right and wrong on that, I hold your opinion on my parenting to be less than worthless.
I must be really old. Homo’s were in the closet, crawled way down in the corner while I was growing up.