I don’t mean to judge, but you extended an invitation. Honestly, $95K a year in combined retirement income is not very good at all. I’d wager a third of that is SSIP, so the remaining would indicate that you eithier worked in low wage profession or that you invested very little over a 35+ year career or that you have made a poor investment choice.
All of the options degrade your credibility to be critical of my entertainment choice.
Sadly, if the govt had not stolen 13% of your income during your career, you would have an income doubling what you claim as a point of pride....
OP, Tell yer wife to hang up the phone and make yer lunch!