Yup - I already said love was the wrong word. That sentence could be read the way you did, tho’ that was not my intent.
“A stern talking to” - LOL - no, not even that. Just polite, informed non-consent. If he went ahead and frisked anyway, I’d file a suit after. I wouldn’t give him a reason for an arrest during.
Do you hang out at the garbage receptacle , in your pajamas, late at night?