[Melas]

You can explore it on your own if you choose, or not.

I think I'm going to have to choose not. Since it's a done deal, I did stay home, and the children are now adults, right or wrong, at this point it simply is. I can't see any utility in anything more than causally discussing it here.

[trailhkr1]

I think I'm going to have to choose not. Since it's a done deal, I did stay home, and the children are now adults, right or wrong, at this point it simply is. I can't see any utility in anything more than causally discussing it here.

I want to add what I wrote above. I don't think the arrangement you and your wife had was wrong in any way... it worked for and that is all that matters. I do think perceptions of the man staying home as less than worthy is going away as more of this happens.

I have no problem with strong women as some do....