There is no proof that a gay or lesbian has ever been killed in the service of Our country.
And if they did serve Our country and die, all their honors previously bestowed upon them should be stripped as they were illegitimate in their service to our country, not unlike a communist spy.
No.
If they did serve out contry and die, then you are as beholden to them, and their blood, for your freedom, as you are anyone else who fought and died for America.
Gays go too far in demanding special rights - agreed. But there are plenty of gays you'll never know about, who don't advertise, and who live upstanding lives - including fighting and dying for this country. To throw that out because you're disgusted with their sexuality is just as wrong as them throwing you out because their disgusted with yours.
And if they shed their blood for the safety of you and your family, they deserve full honor for that sacrifice. As Jesus said, "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends." Which means that when a homosexual soldier makes such a sacrifice, while you are spitting with contempt, Jesus is holding them in his arms.