And I’m uncomfortable calling him a man.
I can see exactly why he's uncomfortable with heroes. Edward "Shakespeare" de Vere nailed it.
"...And Crispin Crispian shall ne'er go by,
From this day to the ending of the world,
But we in it shall be remember'd;
We few, we happy few, we band of brothers;
For he to-day that sheds his blood with me
Shall be my brother; be he ne'er so vile,
This day shall gentle his condition:
And gentlemen in England now a-bed
Shall think themselves accursed they were not here,
And hold their manhoods cheap whiles any speaks
That fought with us upon Saint Crispin's day."
Poofter boy must hold his manhood limp.